Writing this is like writing one of those ads for a dating website. I should have just cut and pasted what I’d written for Match and Dating Direct but I realised that I’d made most of it up to look fairly normal. This description needs to be more truthful so I’ll go with…..40 something female, short, overweight, likes chocolate and muffins (even better if combined), doesn’t like exercise, had a breakdown but in a bid to distract herself from thoughts of suicide opted to complete the Wales Online ‘100 Things To Do In Wales Before You Die’ bucket list in one year. She completed 56 in 2018 and at the end of the year her valued group of Instagram followers suggested more challenges to take it back up to 100. She has one daughter and one mum who faithfully accompany her on the journey (mostly because they don’t have a choice). She also has one partner who puts up with her crazy whims because he foolishly fell for the original description of her in the aforementioned dating advert.